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Tuesday, February 26, 2008 Ok so it's now getting down to the wire and as some of you know it's been nothing but DRAMA!!!!! My matron of honor turned into the Matron of Horror and a really self rightous jealous bitch. I don't know why she's jealous, I haven't given her any reason to be. I don't have anything she doesn't. For fuck sake she's got the house and the kids and is 10 years older than me. Grow up!So due to this drama I'm now planning my own bachelorette party. I'm hoping it's a lot more fun then the damned bridal shower. I was really upset to find out that so many of my friends felt as if we were a burden to her. Came to find out she didn't pay for one fucking thing that was at the house. Other than letting us use her house she didn't pay for a fucking thing....yeah people! My mother, maid of honor, and I picked out my own cake, J paid for the drinks, and my soon to be inlaws (M's parents) paid for all the food. I'm annoyed still! However I sucked all of her nastyness up and decided to draw a fly with sugar not vinegar. I sent her orchids and a spa package. I went out of my way to be kind and nice.....so far it's paid off. Maybe she'll find the time to get the 60' pole out of her ass and have a good fucking time. I can't wait until the rehersal dinner because she'll shit her pants with all the shit she's getting. What can I say I'm good to my brides maids and try to be just as good to all my friends. If need be Maeve has gratiously said she'd step in as a bridesmaid if Kat decides to pull shit on my wedding day. I don't have to worry about my mom and Maeve giving her a piece of thier mind and keeping me calm in the process. I'm waiting to hear from my site coordinator because there aren't enough tables for our guests. We need 15 tables and there's only 13 on the floor plan. Hello I need more tables! I have 125 people that have rsvp'd out of 132. This is not counting M and I. Seating charts are a pain in my ass people! I am trying to put people with others they either know or will have an easy time conversing with. So far I know my witches will be confortable. It's a table full of pagans/wiccans oh and my gay hair stylest/husband. I love him!!! He calls and leaves me little messages about remaining calm and telling others to fuck off and not letting them ruin my day. I love him lol!!! It's getting closer and closer and to be honest I'm not excited yet. I don't know if it's because I haven't had the chance yet or if it's because I'm concentrating on other things. I try to remain 10 steps ahead, and so far so good. Right now I'm just looking forward to the bachelorette party. After that it's the honeymoon. I'm beginning to wonder if I'll ever become excited about the wedding. Or if I'll still have this oh great it's almost here/it's here type of attitude! Bleh I just want it to be over and next year already!!!!! Labels: Is it over yet? |
About Myself
I'm a newlywed who got married on March 15,2008.
I'm currently living at home with my mother, husband,
2 dogs, 3 cats, and 5 tortises. We're saving up for
our first how which we'll hopefully buy soon. I'd
love to start our family, but that like everything
comes in it's own time.
I recently lost my father, and am dealing with his
death the best way I know how. Surrounding myself
with the people I love, and enjoying life like he
would have wanted me to.